CONFLICT MATTERS / ASSESSMENT
Your Conflict Matters Assessment.
Reflect on one situation through self, relationships, and conditions. Your answers suggest useful questions and practices to try; they do not define a permanent conflict style. Allow about 8–10 minutes for 18 statements.
Three lenses, one situation
Self What am I noticing, assuming, needing, or choosing?
Relationships What needs to be understood, said, heard, or repaired?
Conditions What do roles, power, access, resources, and process make possible?
The assessment uses six statements per lens. Four response levels are grouped into a descriptive position; “Not sure” is excluded. At least four definite answers are needed for a position. The result does not compare you with other people. It is an original, developing Conflict Matters reflection tool, not a validated instrument. Your answers remain on this page until you leave or reload it. Download a copy if you want to keep them. If you choose the AI coach, a short summary appears for you to review; it is sent to OpenAI only if you choose Send. Practice lineage and acknowledgments .